Virtual Pop-Up: November 24 - December 24th
Ellis just told me, “It’s Christmas Time!,” as we passed a recently and colorfully lighted tree. I staunchly defended Thanksgiving as next in line and one of our very best holidays. It is quintessentially American, more so to me than July 4th, and I feel it deserves our full attention! Plus, when the kids were little and the idea of selecting, printing, and mailing Christmas cards timed to arrive before the big day gave me panic attacks, I decided to fall back on my Presbyterian heritage. Now I encourage family and friends to fully relish Advent, the season leading up to Christmas Day, preparing and waiting, and the idea of the 12 Days of Christmas. Many wise traditions have seasons of celebration, and why should I cram it all onto one day? There is something leisurely and luxurious about a Christmas party on the 4th Day of Christmas … or the 9th! My husband is English, so Boxing Day, December 26th, also has a bit more significance in our household. In case you are wondering, it requires ham.
This year, we are facing plentiful family time, but with a Senior in the house, the refrain “these are the days to remember” is my mental sound track. I don’t decorate a ton. Instead I love a few special touches - a handmade wreath on the door, polishing the candlestick holder for the Christ Candle in our Advent Wreath, which the women in the family (men are welcome, too!) take outside on Christmas Eve when we look for the Star of Bethlehem, and usually one wonderfully fragrant evergreen arrangement. We do have reservations to cut our Charlie Brown Christmas Tree, a uniquely local tradition for us! I put out more candles and play more music. And I happily arrange flowers for you! That is a huge treat for me this season.
In the midst of what seems like an historical period of chaos, no matter what your traditions, I hope you find a few special moments of quiet, celebration, and the Peace of Season, and that it is beautiful.
Brooks
